"Never Have I ever..."

     Have you ever played Never Have I Ever with a large group of ppl? I have. my Jesus family (Midtown Fellowship) likes to play that game on family vacations. I was just at a family meeting tonight and lots of things were shared and tons more laughed about, there were some tears too. Afterward driving around I was processing some of it and just wanted to go back to that full building and play Never Have I Ever with that bunch.
     Here's something that, had I said it when I first played with them (at Camp Bob Cooper) wouldn't have been true then, but now (if sitting down) I would have to jump up to find a new chair: Never have I ever known God's sweet love, His current will, and cape of approval on my life. And Never Have I Ever upon hearing about a friend leaving had the reaction of "YEAH! That's so great! Go! oh wait you're leaving, I'm gonna cry now. but yay!"

if you don't know how to play Never Have I Ever 1. you probably don't go to Midtown, 2. you're probably confused right now, and 3. just take the phrase "Never have i ever" off of the my statements and you got where i'm at right now. :) still confused? it's okay... i'm writing late at night.

I'm so excited about how God is leading and loving on my Jesus family right now...this year. I'm so blessed and encouraged by God's clear hand in my life and those around me. I'm so thankful that God has put me here for now. So thankful to find that the God of the Bible times still delights in His people. He delights in us ya'll!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Pde89qbpII

Thank You Baba God

Thank You God for the good days, the hard days, the tearful days, the pain from deaths but most of all thank You that through all things You are good. Thank You for the blessings of change, for friends and new kind of family. Thank You for He Holy Spirit and Your kind of comfort. Thank You that 'He's not fair when He fixes what's beyond repair' -(Kendall Payne's song aslan). Thank You for snuggles when i don't deserve it. Thank You for Jesus dying on the cross for my sins the ones pple see but often and most for the ones pple don't see and pass over because "everybody does that" or "you may struggle with that forever, get use to it", Thank You that You don't become okay with my sins and breaking Your heart over and over every day just because I give up on myself. Thank You Baba that Jesus lived a perfect life and live with a crazy family that thought He was ridiculous, thank You sweet Holy Spirit that You get me. You understand. Thank You that You know what's just around the bend in my life and Your ready! Yeah! You got this one covered. I don't need to worry. I need to trust and walk with You through this life. (happy sigh) Thank You Baba for this life. Thank You for the lives of my friends and those that I will meet in the future. I'm quietly excited about this life ahead but so unsure of myself, but sure of You. I'm glad You never leave and You are really good.
Thank You for being good.

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_a2iVwURb14 

currently thinking... (just processing nothing huge)

so i'm borrowing a bed and mattress from a friend that is about to move to a different state which reminded me that sometime i'm going to have grow up and buy my own bed. which has thrown my mind in questions of what kind of bed do i want? and how much do i want to spend on it? how much do i need to start saving for it?
my first answers are quiet simple - twin sized, just the frame and as cheap as possible, free would be awesome.
but then i started thinking... well one roommate has a queen size bed and the other has a twin with a large head board, maybe something like that? but no. i don't want a head board because i remember so many times hitting my head on them as a kid - ouch! no thanks. and then i thought... get a queen size bed in case you get married one day. you can keep your bed and save money if he happens to be also sleeping on a twin bed currently too.
Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah. me? sleep on a queen size? no! how sad! growinng up i shared a queen size with my sister and that was fun. and a few times i've visited other pple where their guest bed was a queen and i just felt really lonely without a friend. besides they take up tons of room. and besides, you can fit lots of pple on a twin! hahaha! so it's settled i would like a twin sized though i will probably look at different types of frames just because, because.
i know i know, odd post. but there's my brain for you. besides i have a head cold, you never know what you will get when someone has a cold.

passionate

have you ever listened to or read different chapters of the Bible and been filled with the sense of awe at God's passionate love for His bride the church? He's passion that sets your heart still and then that rush? like you just want to lay in His arms. has His love ever awakened something new in you? has any such wonder of such love ever made you want  to drop everything and run to do He's bidding. yes the world calls, facebook calls my name and emails, work, crushes, sleep, but a pure love that yearns with passion for His bride the Church, each of His beloved children. *sigh* would that i remember such love daily.

psalm 45-46 and John 17

Just a thought II...

     I think that selfishness is a really sneaky little tike. There are many different ways that it rears its ugly head in my life. Beside the first note today. And here again I believe it is often looked over or pushed to the side because we all are selfish, so if your not a twenty-five year old that is still acting like a spoiled four year old who doesn't want anyone to touch any of the toys because "their MINE! ALL MINE!" then you're fine. You're doing great, don't worry about it. Nobody but you knows about it, so you can continue on your way as you were. Boo. Boo, I say! Boo. No thank you. I don't want to be stuck the rest of my life finding out new ways that I'm selfish and not grow from it.

     For instance I'm taking this class called Recovery at my church and in the middle of the book there are what'cha call inventories. Taking inventory of different aspects of your life. The one that I've gotten stuck on is on Resentments and Anger. I tend to believe that I'm not a very anger person but gracious! When my Dad passed away last year anger and resentment came all boiling up! I read a very good book last year called Uprooting Anger by Robert D. Jones that made me mad at Mr Jones, but I found the root of that anger was that the core of my anger was being revealed. I just wanted MY way to be THE way. Didn't he know that he shouldn't write anything to offend the great Vicki? I mean really! But later in the book he talked about how when we become angry we are setting ourselves up as a judge over the situation. Me getting angry over my Dad passing away suddenly was me setting myself up as the judge - I believed it to be wrong that Dad died - so therefore God must be wrong since I claimed the judgment seat.
     There have been too many examples in the past week for me to decide which to put down. However, going through this inventory I am so humbled to find out just how much I think all circumstances should go my way.
     There are bad things that have happened in my life and the lives of my family. Things that were just wrong and painful to all weather we admit them or not. As far as I know righteous anger is called for but what do we do after the righteous anger? What do we do with that righteous anger if we even have any? Most of my anger has been me focused. As in "hey! why'd you do that? Or why'd that happen? Ouch!" Some I know would say I have a right to carry on that anger and resentment toward that person or thing that happened. But do I? Am I the ultimate judge? Do I give the most adequate response or judgement to the offense?  
      No. No, I am not the ultimate judge. Jesus is. No, I cannot give the most adequate judgment to any offense. God does. No, I don't have the right to lord my pain over another as some would say. Because Jesus Christ came an lived a life I could never live. Because I, in the sight of God, am no more then any other. I'm a dang sinner without the righteousness of God. God is the true judge, all of life revolves around Him. In my revenge I would say evil things of people I barely know. In my revenge I would miscount any harm done to them and yell about how much they should have respected me, so why didn't they? And in my revenge I would mistreat all who did me harm of every level until they learned - in reality to be the bigger person - to treat me how I deserve. mmm - I'm stuck here thinking oh know what if the ppl who read this don't like what I put down next? What if they find me judgmental and without understanding and grace? But I've just remembered: Nobody reads this! I'm not that famous and I live before the face of God anyhow. And this is a really long post... if yours still reading wow! why? are you that bored?

     But this isn't how God calls me to live. God calls me to live as Jesus did. To treat those who misuse me the same way Jesus responded. With forgiveness. Everyday I misuse my salvation, everyday I give God reason why Jesus died on the cross. If God acted like I act when I get angry then Christianity would totally be works based and even after a life of works based living I'd still end up in Hell forever. Praise Jesus He's more like a father with his four year old screaming son who really needs a spanking and a nap!

 Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God. ~ James 1:19-20


 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” ~ Romans 12:19

Just a thought...

     Selfishness is a really tricky thing because it's easy to hide from our friends and self, and because everybody is. Sometimes it clear cut and everybody sees it, but what if your that person that everybody thinks highly of and wants to be? Do ppl see them as selfish ever? I think if you really get to know them, or live with them you'd see it.
     I know that in these last few weeks I've been learning just how selfish I am. I'm nobody's super star but I have been told in the last year by a number of people that they think I'm awesome or they look up to me. I'm truly honored by that but honestly I think I have tended to take that to the wrong level. I tend to imagine up scenarios all day long of what people could say to me and how I will respond in the best way, the coolest way, or the most spiritually profound way for all the sure to happen conversation with all the "cool people" I do or don't actually talk to. And, by golly, you know what I was deeply convicted on this week? Being fearful of what others think of me. Yeah. I've been so consumed by what others will think of whatever I say that I run through all these scenarios in my cubical while I work that sometimes I even work myself up to my stomach tied in knots! And the point of belief that everybody everywhere that knows me is thinking about me all the time and has me up on a pedestal and OH MY GOSH I HAVE TO PREFORM to keep them happy! Because we all know I'm the center of this universe!

But then a quiet relief came. I don't live before or for the faces of men. Their opinion of me doesn't really matter, the worse they can do is kill me. Whose face does it really matter that I live before? Whose face? God's face. The face of the One who created me. The face of the One who is actually the center of the universe. The face of the One who can actually terrorize me and allow me the worse possible ending to my life, you know that ever lasting life without Christ in a deep dark corner of Hell. But no, I live before the face of Jesus Christ who has saved me. Jesus Christ, God who has redeemed me from the miry pit (psalms 40:1-4). This is the face I live before to please. His is the face I am to live for. Not mine to keep me in the "cool crowd" or other human faces.
     So the truly self centered scenario's can stop because I don't have to live up to their expectations of me, or my assumed expectations they have for me. I get to look at scripture and commune with the Holy Spirit for how I am to live before His face. How to please Him as my God.
     So just a thought for you, whose face do you live before? Honestly in your heart. Whose face?

Veterans Day

  I just wanted to say

Dad, I missed you day!

I'm so proud of you.

Thank you for going so far away.

To fight for some friends,

To stand by their side.

To prayerful give their children

A Right to be free.

Thank you for fighting for them

and for me.

Without these memories 

Or the nightmares you saw,

You wouldn't have learned what you knew

Been completely you

I couldn't have become me

If you hadn't gone an fought

In that Vietnam War.

In memory of my Dad (Paul A. Hansen)

 who died last year Sept.19, 2010 of a heart attack.